In this second phase, the mask comes off and the Narcissist starts to reveal their true colours.
The shift could be gradual or almost seemingly overnight.
A relationship with a Narcissist always follows three phases, the over-evaluations phase, the devaluation phase and the discard phase.
The Over-evaluation Phase A Narcissist is very careful when choosing a target.
Their target is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.This kind of idolization is what others would call infatuation.The victim is likely so caught up in all the attention and is usually thinking at this point, that they have found their soul-mate.Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status.They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.