What other job requires you to be combat ready at the same time you are called upon to be a counselor, a priest, a lawyer, and a social worker?What other profession authorizes you to use deadly force and then mandates that you attempt to save the person you just tried to kill? It's hard to sleep, to stop thinking about the shooting or to engage in normal family activities.in which case, I would interpret that as a not-yes and assume that you are definitely NOT exclusive and assume he is indeed acting accordingly…) If he says yes, I would go on to say: “OK, good, that’s what I thought. we live in a time where everyone can see everything that’s going on online with people.Something in me made me curious and I looked at your Match profile and saw you’d logged on recently after we said we’d be exclusive. I’m not here to ‘catch you’ or worry about what you may or may not be up to…
It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?
Most psychologists have no idea in treating police officers. Creating psychologists who are culturally competent to treat police officers is the reason I and my two colleagues (both retired cops) wrote Counseling Cops: What Clinicians Need to Know. Many retired officers has become psychologists (we call them cop docs). Licensed mental health clinicians risk losing their licenses (and their incomes) by breaking confidentiality.
Employee Assistance Programs do have to report utilization stats to get paid.
This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.